Archive for October, 2007

31
Oct

Being Free

Chief Joseph

Good Day,

I come from American Indian decent and when I was very young I was fortunate enough to actually meet my great, great grandmother on my fathers side of the family. She was full blooded Indian with dark hair, jet black eyes and a club foot. Her appearence was at first quite frightening, but when she spoke you could hear the wisdom and kindness in her voice. I was very young and I only remember this one faint visit, but the memory has lasted a lifetime.

My Great Grandfather (papaw as I called him) always talked of her and the struggles she endured in her lifetime. He was a great storyteller and always had a book set aside for me as a gift when I visited. On one extended visit he shared with me a story passed along to him from my Great Great Grandmother. It was a tale about Chief Joseph and his ability to look into the souls of mankind. The story goes something like this:

Sitting by the fireside in the cold desert night, the sky above him infinately clear and full of brillant stars, a lone Chief reflected on who he was and the troubled times that were unfolding all around him. He was known throughout the land as Chief Joseph. Possibly the greatest of the Nez Perce Indian Tribe.

On that dark night by the fire, he wrote these words.

Let me be a free man.
Free to travel. Free to stop.
Free to work. Free to choose my own teachers.
Free to follow the religion of my fathers.
Free to think and talk and act for myself.

Then he began to contemplate upon what this life might mean. If he had to share what was in his heart with others what would he say? Staring at the fire, it spoke to him.

Your inner fire is the best part of you. It’s who you are inside. It’s who you want to be on the outside.
Every time you dream of what is possible for you, it sparks. Yet man always reacts to this spark with fear. This is why, more than anything else, the world had reached it’s current state.

It’s not the major events—the wars, the poverty, the sickness, and death that imposes its burden upon us all. It’s the numbness of those who aren’t paying attention, who have food, shelter and want for little. It’s the unfortunate who move from day to day as shadows in their own lives, for they must be tended to like sheep or children and we all must asume the roles of herders and parents.

If these unfortunate ones would step outside the hopeless swamp of mediocrity, step outside their never ending dream, then we could all put our energies towards the real issues and heal the wounds of war, hunger, and sickness. But alas, their genius and their collective will has been trapped in the not-quite, the not-yet, and sometimes the not-at-all.

These poor beings have let the heroism of their life fall to waste, whle they chase the impossible. They are lonely for their own comfort, when in truth there is none to be found. They are frustrated with life and with each attempt to get what they want they receive what they feel they don’t deserve.

These beings are not able to see that inner completeness that makes them whole. They do not wage the battles against the ignorance that keeps them locked into their prison they call life. Yet, there is another way.

It is authentic.
It is possible.
It is within us all.
We can wake from our endless dream.

When we awaken to the truth that the world lives inside each of us, then we can find the way to heal that world. When we all awaken to this reality then you every man, woman, and child can be free.

Happy Halloween!

Peace and Love, Jim

30
Oct

Your life; My Life

Good Day,

Just about everyone I know has some level of friendship with others. Many of us have long term friendships that we have invested heavily in over the years. Some only have casual, passing relationships. Regardless of the type of friendships we have one issue always seems to come up. This is the issue of offering advice to your friends (or them you). It seems like a harmless and caring act to try and help your friends or offer a bit of sage advice, but more often than not this little act is taken in the wrong context and someone somehow gets offended, disappointed or worse they walk out of the friendship.

The problem is that people tend to think that their life is truly “theirs” and they will live it however they want and the last thing anyone thinks they need is someone telling them how to live “their” life. The problem is this whole scenario is that my life is not mine and your life is not yours anymore than it’s “your” seat in a restaurant.

Don’t believe me? Then try this logic out and decide for yourself.

It’s not YOUR life because:

You don’t get to keep it, it’s just like a library book you checked out.

To own something, you must possess it, do you possess your life simply because you were born?

You are not separate from everything and everyone else, you are a PART of all this. You do not live in a vacum.

You CAN NOT make one decision, perform one action or breathe one breath without affecting someone else some where in the world. This one is important. You can not even get up in the morning and go to work with the efforts of some one else helping to make that happen. From the gas in your car to the electricity that powered your alarm clock, people were working around the clock to make sure YOUR life goes on. The cause and effects of our decisions may not always be visible to us, but in someway big or small, every thought, every action effects the world and us in some way.
Now since we are all interconnected in this way (prove that wrong and I will shut up right now!) and no one can make a move without affecting others (in fact no one can live without the efforts of others), Is it really YOUR life? or MY life? Can you prove it to be any other way? Try it. I dare you to logically walk yourself through this thought and come to any other conclusion. I double dog dare you!!!

You see we confuse freedom with possession. Yes you are free to make your own choices, you are free to do as you please. . .that is freedom. But that does not mean you own YOUR life and more importantly IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE FREE FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR CHOICES. So what is YOURS and is MINE when we recognize this TRUTH about life? The answer is NOTHING. . . it’s OUR life.

When we disregard this simple fact we live blindly and selfishly, we perpetuate the myth that we are all individuals with no connections or cause for working together, we ultimately continue to isolate ourselves from the very world we are a part of in order to get WHAT WE WANT for OUR LIVES. The sad part (again I beg you to put all this to the test) is that in the end we still never get what we want and the life we so selfishly considered ours is more like a bunch of collectibles gathering dust in an attic somewhere waiting for someone to value them as much as we do.

This life, this world; it’s OURS. Maybe that makes you feel great, maybe that makes you feel horrible, regardless of how you feel or whether you want to face this truth or not, the bottom line is that it was never YOUR life and it never will be. We are all in this boat together, so you might as well get over the fact that it’s not YOUR boat and enjoy the ride and the company.

Have a beautiful day and ponder this – We are all conduits for something. Whatever we are in contact with, whatever we surround ourselves with, passes through us whether we like it or not. Ideas pass through us, spirituality and certainly desire passes through us as surely as the cord through the wooden hands of a marionette. When we fail to recognize this we are reduced to fish in a pond circling for our next feeding. We bite the hook and wonder why we’re miserable.

Peace and Love, Jim